You want it. Then do it first

I pretty much scold my daughter everyday to “use your manners.” She uses “ I want” waaaay too much. I am trying to teach her to use please and thank you, while still going after what she wants.

But that is how we are conditioned from baby on up. The only way we get what we want is to show that we first want it. So once we are able to use our words. This first things we learn, and understand is “ I want.” Then…